OUR VISION IS SIMPLE

We exist to tend to the heart of Jesus and tend to the heart of the home.

Tend is more than just an intensive—it’s a transformative weekend designed to reset your heart, home, and life. We long to tend to the heart of the Lord while tending to the heart of the home. It’s the rhythm of His heart that should lead us as we lead our homes, but often, the world we live in pulls us away from a healthy pace. Tend weekend intensives were created for families to experience the beauty of slowing down and learning to live from the inside out. When we gather around the presence of Jesus and break bread together, something supernatural takes place. This is an invitation for a fresh start—a time of healing, connection, and restoration with a generational impact. We’d love to see you there!

WHO WE ARE

We are the Koulianos family and are passionate about wholeness and health in family! There are many incredible discipleship resources out there that focus on training for public ministry and we both honor and celebrate that. These are vital resources in extending God’s kingdom in the earth! However, the one thing we feel is often overlooked seems to be healthy family. The key to longevity in ministry is intimacy with God and prioritizing family. What would it look like in the earth if we slowed down, much like pulling back an arrow, to teach people that the heart of God is generational and that we can give our great, great grandkids the gift of health in ministry? At Tend School, we live to build from the inside out.

Come and be a part!

Love,
Theo, Rach, Theo Malachi, Henry, Caleb and Levi

Topics

Covered

Leading Your Home: Prioritizing His Presence & Worship

Learn how to lead your home from a place of His presence. We have the privilege of leading our families to encounter Jesus, the One who longs to dwell with us in our everyday lives. Learn how to center your house around His presence and fill your home with the fragrance of worship.

Tend to the Heart of Jesus and Heart of your Home

Proverbs 4:23 teaches us that the heart is where the issues of life flow from. Vulnerability in the hands of God creates space for freedom and deep connection. Heart work leads to generational impact, and the home is where we surrender our walls.

Revealing Jesus Through Words & Actions

We reveal God to our spouses and children through the way we speak and treat each other. When we encounter Jesus in the home as a family, He teaches us His ways, enabling us to love one another well.

Navigating Messy Conversations

The home should be the safest place for our families—a space of openness where nothing is off-limits and hard conversations can happen. Creating a culture of communication requires intentionality. Jesus’ heart cry and prayer is that we would be one, as He and the Father are one. We answer His cry when we live heart to heart with each other.

Stewarding Communion & the Vulnerability of Jesus

Before going to the cross, Jesus gathered His own and modeled the holy act of communion. He vulnerably asked us to remember Him often, and our response is to make this a pillar of our home. When we prioritize the body and blood of Jesus, there is a supernatural response.

The Sacred Table & Its Generational Impact

The table is one of the most important pieces of furniture in the home. It is where we welcome others, carry each other’s burdens, and make people feel loved through the serving of food. It is a meeting place that is holy, sacred, and deeply meaningful.

Intensive

Schedule

Friday

6:30pm – 7:30pm

Dinner & Fellowship

Friday

7:30pm – 9:00pm

Worship & Communion

Saturday

10:00am – 10:30am

Breakfast & Fellowship

Saturday

10:30am – 4:00pm

Worship & Sessions

Weekend Pass

$300

Limited to just 15 couples—courting, engaged, or married—this intimate weekend intensive is designed for deep connection, vulnerability and healing. To maintain a personal and transformative experience, we’re keeping the gathering small. Secure your spot now—pricing is per couple! Please note that accommodation is not included in the registration fee.

Expand the Impact: Support Families

We are committed to making these intensives accessible to couples in every stage of life. While the $300 couple registration fee helps cover some expenses, it does not fully offset the costs of bringing these experiences to different cities. If you feel led and are in a position to contribute beyond the registration fee, we invite you to partner with us in expanding the reach of these intensives. Your additional donation to A Place for Family, Inc. will help make this opportunity available to more couples in more locations. Thank you for your generosity and support!

PARTNER WITH US

“Listen, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength. And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up.”

Deuteronomy 6:4